Thinking

Lately on some of the mom groups I follow and such there have been posts about how close together to have kids. I also read some articles that said about this too. No offense to those who want kids super close together all the more power to you. It just got me thinking how some of these articles are not realizing the fact that someone don't have a choice to have their kids close together or not. Its crazy to think that fertility problems are not talked about and recognized like they should be. I just found it interesting how many women on this mom group ask how close together to have kids when really its what they think they can handle what they feel is right for their families and for their children you can get as many opinions as you want but that's really up to you and your spouse. Just from my point of view being someone who struggles with infertility and having trouble getting pregnant it just bothered me. I don't think there is a perfect age gap its whatever you feel comfortable with its what makes you happy and what the Lord decides is best for your family. My plan was to have have each child two to three years apart but it wasn't the lords plan. Karson and the new baby will be almost 4 years apart but to me that doesn't matter as long as they are going to be my children forever and ever and they will always be family.